I Got Fired for Swearing - But I Didn’t!

jtdale-closeup-color.pngDear J.T. & Dale: I was told that I was being terminated for using a bad word that was overheard by a patient. Yet the supervisor could not give me any specifics of who, what, where and when. I honestly believe that I was cut to reduce overhead since they had expanded and constantly reminded us of the money invested. I was the second-highest-paid employee there, and my job duties easily could be split and done by other people (which is what happened after I was let go). My assumption is that they used an excuse, because they know I would have asked for a severance package. I don’t want to use the reason they gave me on any future job applications because it’s not true. Would it be OK to put what I believe is the real reason? — Randy

Dale: First, Randy, I’m willing to accept your side of the story because it often happens: Managers need to reduce the staff and rather than being honest about it, they’ll wait for an excuse to fire someone. Doing so, they avoid paying benefits, and they duck a difficult conversation — instead of trying to explain why they picked you to lay off, they simply blame you. It’s low, weasley behavior that allows weak managers to feel virtuous.

J.T.: But I wouldn’t put it on the initial application. Even if it’s true, it sounds like an excuse, and future employers don’t want to interview someone who lays blame and is negative. I think you could say you left your last job due to “professional differences and the job was subsequently eliminated.” Then, when asked directly what that means, be honest and explain what happened. Keep to the facts. The goal is to refocus them on your positive attitude in spite of what happened —tell them what you learned while working at your former employer and give credit where credit is due.

Dale: But why raise those “professional differences” doubts? I’d just say the position was eliminated. First, though, you’ll want to cover yourself by e-mailing your old boss and making sure that when someone calls to check on your employment, the company only verifies dates of employment. They owe you that. If they won’t agree to say nothing, tell them you’re going to contact an attorney; after all, going public with their lie is going to hurt your efforts to find work.

J.T.: If that doesn’t work, reach out to former co-workers from your old employer and see if they would be willing to be character references for you. A nice list of people who still work there is the easiest way to counteract a negative or nonexistent reference from the company.

Dale: Let’s end by taking a minute to consider Randy’s dilemma as a cautionary tale. Whenever a company is in financial difficulties, everyone who doesn’t bring in revenue is vulnerable. And if that’s you, and you know that your job “easily could be split and done by other people,” then it’s up to you to do more than wait and hope; it’s then your job to sharpen your job hunting skills faster than the company’s finance people sharpen their ax.

2 Responses

  1. barbsright Says:

    Randy,talk with a lawyer. What they did was slander you. If you do not do anything people will believe the lie, and then it will spread around and you will have a hard time getting a new job.

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